found: New York times WWW site, Nov. 22, 2010(in obituary published Nov. 21: Norris Church Mailer; b. Barbara Jean Davis, Jan. 31, 1949, Washington state; m. Larry Norris (div.); met Norman Mailer in 1975; changed her name to Norris Church (Mailer suggested Church because he was struck by her having attended Free Will Baptist services three times a week as a child); m. Mailer in 1980 (d. in 2007); d. Sunday [Nov. 21, 2010], Brooklyn Heights, aged 61; a woman bred in the rural poverty of Arkansas who married Norman Mailer and managed his career and family life over three decades while carving out her own niche as a writer)